How Dogs Teach Our Children Responsibility Sharing and Communication (Part 2)

How Dogs Teach Our Children Responsibility, Sharing and Communication Part 2

Every person who buys a puppy, or adopts a new dog, does so with the intention of teaching the new member of the family dog tricks, training plans, and such - but it is also common to use them to help teach the children.

How Can A Dog Teach Your Child

Not only have I seen teaching-dogs in homes all around the country, but many progressive schools use animals as an integral part of their programs. Marie Montessori, the famous Italian doctor and educator, filled her books on the Montessori Method with fruitfulness of animalchild relationships.

Psychologists, too, use dogs as one way of teaching children who are lost mentally into a deep world of fantasy. The dog is sometimes the only reality that these children will respond to. The basis for this method of communication no matter how serious or light-hearted is an age-old recipe. It is the simple, uncomplicated friendship of child and dog. This simplicity frees the child to learn.

Missing are two natural ingredients found in human relationships complexity and competition a childs relationship with brothers and sisters is normally fraught with rivalry, and parents are seen as symbols of authority.

A dog simplifies by acting out his feelings whether joy or shame. You can explain to children the dogs motivations and reactions. In fact, dogs are a teachers ideal a living illustration.

How To Teach Responsibility

Dogs are an excellent tool in teaching your children about responsibility. Remember not to make your child feel that he is doing a chore, rather suggest the activity, then give him the skills to handle it.

Lets take brushing the dog as an example. Dont forget that your child may not know how to use a brush properly and the dog may not know what the brush will bring pain or pleasure.

Aquaint both of them. Tell the child that the dog has never seen the brush before and that since he recognizes things through his sense of smell, letting him smell the brush and any other equipment you use will make them familiar.

Demonstrate brushing against the dogs fur and then back with it. Break down the brush strokes into different lengths one to use for long hair, another on the dogs chest, and another near his head. That way you give the child more control and the chances of his unintentionally hurting or scaring the dog and the dog scaring him are lessened.

Point Out Verbally To Your Child

Point out the purpose of brushing

You brush with and against his fur to loosen dead skin and stimulate the new skin. You are really dressing him in a new coat one that keeps him warm, and keeps the rain from getting through to his skin or even helps him to be cooler in the summer.

Relate it to the childs own experience

Brushing makes him comfortable. Like how mommy irons your clothes to keep you comfortable, dogs feel good when they have been brushed.

Point out how the dog is responding

See how he lies on his back. Hes showing you he enjoys it.

And finally, make good use of the times that do not by-the-book

Hes wiggling to get away because hes not sure what you are going to do. Do it easy and be persistent. Give him a chance to see how nice it is. Maybe then hell be still.